From Grief to Joy

Read: John 16:20-24

Now is your time of grief, but I will see you again and you will rejoice, and no one will take away your joy. (v. 22 NIV)

When Jesus used the example of a woman giving birth, he pointed to an event that’s both commonplace and extraordinary. We all began life the same way. Everyone has a birthday, a shared connection for humanity. Mothers experience the pain of childbirth, resulting in new life, which brings much joy.

All people share the language of pain, suffering, and grief. But Psalm 30:5 says, “Weeping may tarry for the night, but joy comes with the morning.” In John’s gospel, as elsewhere in the New Testament, the Greek word translated “joy” is chara, which is related to charis, which means “grace.” Feelings fluctuate, but this joy that Jesus says belongs to us is a gift of grace. Daniel Denk, in an article titled “Jesus Came to Bring Joy,” writes “Joy . . . is a steady disposition about life. We might say that joy is a hopeful and peaceful outlook on life, a deep-seated sense of well-being” (The Banner, May 2023). It’s not dependent on circumstances. Jesus knew what the disciples did not, that in spite of (and even, shockingly, because of) his upcoming crucifixion and death, they would still have reason to rejoice.

Several years ago, I chose to personalize my car’s license plate, making it easy to remember and locate in a parking lot: JOY 365. It reminds me that every day, regardless of what happens, I can look for and experience the joy that Jesus promised.

As you pray, ask Jesus to help you experience the joy he came to bring.

About the Author

denise vredevoogd
Denise Vredevoogd

​​Denise Vredevoogd is a private piano teacher who lives near Grand Rapids, Michigan. She enjoys reading, writing, gardening, and spending time in nature with her adult sons and daughters.

This entry is part 10 of 10 in the series The Parting Words of Jesus